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I want a reliable online source from which I can learn how to gain self confidence. Can someone help me with that?

It has been a long time since I have tried to do something meaningful in my life because I am always afraid of what may happen in the future if I make a certain decision. I need to know how to gain self confidence or even more how to boost self confidence. I would really appreciate it if someone can provide me with a website for developing self confidence that may have some advice or tips to improve confidence.

Curtis Rhodes

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Chelsea Hayes on March 20, 2018

Nowadays, many people have many problems with self-confidence basically because of the different things we feel obliged to do every day whether at work or in our personal life. We, as humans, tend to do our best to achieve what society, family, or friends expect from us. Sometimes failing to do so may lead to having many problems with developing our self confidence in some situations, which will affect us negatively after all. The first thing you need to admit is that you are not alone in this. I have been through the same stage. I want you to know that you can go through it with belief in yourself and persistence. As they say, life is not sunshine and rainbows. So, one way or another, we all have to face our inner issues and fears of what may happen to us if we make certain decisions. There is no specific guide that you can follow to know how to gain more self confidence as this has to come mainly from yourself. For instance, my best guide was a two-month trip abroad away from all the people I know. When you travel to a foreign country, you have to solely depend on yourself in many different situations which will definitely boost your self confidence without even you realizing it. I personally believe that traveling can be the best “how to boost your self confidence” guide. You will be forced to use a foreign language, buy the necessary food from the local market, deal with people with a different mindset, experience new traditions and habits, make new friends who will be very interested in you as you come from a different country, and most importantly to discover yourself and know who you really are and what you want from life. I think it is a big life challenge that anyone has to go through because I have only managed to know myself and find out what I really want during my trips. At the end of my answer, you will find a very useful website that will definitely help you with improving confidence in yourself and your capabilities. You should check it for tips and more pieces of advice but you have to understand that change has to come only from yourself but not from online help.

Tad Fraziera year ago

I totally agree with the answer above. Change has to come from yourself most of all. I also think that going on a long trip in a foreign country will definitely improve your confidence and make you have more faith and belief in yourself. I have been through the same stage when I was a teenager and I have only started feeling better about myself after my trip to Asia where I had to eat strange food and learn a new foreign language to be able to communicate with the locals. It was the biggest challenge in my life so far, but it helped me gain many survival skills, and most of all, it really boosted my self-confidence and made me accept myself as I am. I really wish you the best of luck and I advise you to go on a trip to a country that you have always dreamt of visiting.

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